I just read an article that declares our writing voice is drawn from our life experiences. It is shaped the same way as our view points and opinions. I agree.

Though I haven't done the self exploration that would shed light on what makes me me, I believe I wouldn't be the person I am today; hopeful, yet cynical; driven, yet a dreamer, a study in contradictions, if my young life had not played out as it did. For the record I'm rather happy with myself.

Everyone has baggage, it molds and shapes the way we interact with the world. The trick is being able to realize who you are, and to toss the things you don't like.

For instance, if you grew up with a parent that grunted over dinner, a behavior you despise. (Yes, I know people who've had such a childhood) Then you find yourself grunting over dinner. You can do one of two things. Either continue grunting and pass it on to your kids, or you can stop and chew in silence.

Our lives make us who we are, as people, as writers. It's up to us to deside if we accept it or we make a change. Hopefully for the better.